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See the Missions – a wonderful way to tour California!

November5

Ethan’s first Intersession began this week. 3 weeks off in October! Woohoo! We planned a trip to experience the 4th grade mission curriculum live and in person. (Made more palatable to Ethan by capping it off with a trip to Disneyland with Zoe’s leftover Park Hopper passes – thanks Zoe!)

Grandma Penny and Grandpa Jim were ready to get Matthew and Jared to school and all activities while Ethan and I were traveling. It turned out they didn’t have to stay longer than one day when Glen was reprieved by Marketo early while he waits to start his new gig at Adchemy, so he had the whole week off!

What a way to see California!

We started at San Juan Bautista and worked our way south seeing 15 missions over 4 days (prudently skipping Carmel due to what was sure to be horrific traffic. We can hit it on a nice family overnight some other time.)

The missions are spaced at what was meant to be about a day’s ride apart along what was then Juan Bautista de Anza’s El Camino road and is now (mostly) 101. (Look for the bells marking it up and down California including in San Mateo. Amazingly he made his expedition in 1775-76 – the same year the east coast was trying to sign a Declaration of Independence!) Today that’s about a 50 minute drive on average between missions. What beautiful scenery – farmland, mountains, ocean, lakes, creeks, deer, quail, bunnies, hummingbirds, swallows.

Some missions are state parks, some are active parishes. Some are in pristine condition, re-built or preserved. Nuestra Senora de Soledad is mostly ruins surrounded by farmland. Capistrano is both a ruin, calling the remains from the church that collapsed in the 1812 earthquake the “Acropolis of America,” and the most beautifully preserved mission – truly the “Jewel of the Missions.” (Its chapel is the only church left standing that was graced by the presence of Blessed J Serra.)

The missions’ heyday lasted only about 50 years. The first mission, San Diego de Alcala, was founded in 1771 but they weren’t really up and functioning as the communes that the Franciscans envisioned until about 1780 (I think it was San Luis Rey de Francia that had 50,000 combined sheep and cattle!). The Spanish stopped funding them in the 1830’s and then secularized the land. Or maybe Mexico secularized the land after their revolution? It’s still unclear to me!

Why, you may ask, do we study the missions if they were such a short part of California’s history, when the American Indians displaced by them were here for thousands of years living in harmony with the land? Surprisingly, the missions are a fantastic jumping off place to study most of California’s history pre-gold rush 1849. Yes, the California Indians were here for thousands of years, but they weren’t exactly keeping a written history that we can read today. Every single mission, to their credit, had information about the Indians who lived on the mission land before the Franciscans and Spaniards came. Photographs, murals, artifacts including the hand-woven baskets (the best in the world – they could hold water and were used for everything including cooking), arrowheads, mortar and pestles and lots of information about way of life pre-mission like diet details.

Santa Barbara’s mission had an interesting essay entitled, “Free or Slave” about the legal status of the people who did all the work. The essay asserts that American Indians were granted the equivalent of the legal status of children in Spain at the time, and were therefore neither. Ethan thought that was hogwash since they never had the option of “growing up” under this system. Most of the information was not as patriarchal as the legacy of the missions. (i.e. the missions renamed the Indians based on the name of the saint the mission was named for, instead of calling tribes the names they’d given themselves. And most offensive to me were the statues of Junipero Serra with young Indian boys in truly questionable poses).

One of the missions, was it San Fernando Rey de Espana?, had a room dedicated to “14 Flags of California” which is a great story/curriculum about the legal status of California from the 1500’s to the date of statehood in 1850.

We weren’t the only ones with this great idea to tour missions. We ran into a dad and his son ETHAN, age 9 and in 4th grade, at San Buenaventura on Monday a.m. and then again at our next stop San Fernando Rey. They were doing the same thing! The Ethans enjoyed each other’s company and so did Vincent and I as we hit the rest of the missions. Too bad they postponed their Disneyland trip from Wednesday, although we wish them better weather than we had.

Anyway, this is a great way for families with kids age 7 and older to tour California. If you take your time and limit yourself to 2 or 3 per day you can also take time to enjoy so much of the magic California has to offer: hiking, beach excursions, Solvang’s Little Denmark and wine coutry, San Luis Obispo’s college community, Legoland, Disneyland, L.A….. the list is too long.

Ethan and I had a great time! And we learned a lot too!

Pictures coming soon!

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Healthy – more or less

October5

On the one hand the boys are pretty healthy.

At some point in the spring I realized that Ethan had been sniffling and sneezing non-stop for a year.

Allergies. Guess the breast milk didn’t work after all. *sigh*

On top of that, ever since he threw up on a plane on the way to Jessica’s bar mitzvah in May(?) 2008, he’s had trouble with his ear plugging up when we go around corners or up and down hills in the car. Middle ear fluid? His pediatrician showed no interest in this. But it was driving Ethan CRAZY. I gave him benadryl for it when we would go on long car trips or get on an air plane which helped. But anyway, the middle ear fluid can also be caused by allergies.

So finally I find an allergist. After a couple visits to the wonderful Dr. Machtinger, (really I just like to say his name with a german accent) we discover that Ethan is strongly allergic to dust mites and slightly allergic to cats.

Well, maybe the breast milk did work. Glen’s allergic to cats and pollen and grass.

So we got Ethan a new ionic air purifier thingie, vacuumed, vacuumed, vacuumed, (which actually doesn’t help that much apparently so I’m not sure why I’m doing it) dusted, washed all linens, swapped out his pillow for one that can be washed better and will be getting rid of the carpet in there. Of course, we haven’t yet invested in the special mattress, linens, pillows, powder to kill dust mites….. Ugh. I can see the circles under his eyes and he wakes up sniffling every morning.

On top of that, there’s the root canal.

18 months ago Ethan 2 front teeth broke off halfway down when a baseball took a bad hop smack into his face. Dr Terrence Lau of San Mateo (AMAZING pediatric dentist, can not say enough good about him. The children have never experienced a moment of pain in his chair and considering what Ethan’s been through that’s saying a lot. Thanks Dympna for introducing me to him!) met us at his office after hours and, without assistance, painstakingly glued the pieces of Ethan’s teeth that his team mates had found back on. I think we were there close to 3 hours.

Then in January of this year Ethan’s mouth hit some playground equipment and the pieces broke off again. Luckily he was able to remain calm and find them in the sand before some preschooler came over and buried them. This time it was during the day so at least there was an assistant to help!

But unfortunately we discovered a few weeks ago that the nerve in one of his 2 front teeth died the 2nd time. Root canal. Not only that, but it means multiple visits to the endodontist because the tooth hasn’t finished growing yet so they’re putting some special substance into the tooth to help it grow which has to be replenished every 2 months before they seal it up once and for all. Dr Lau thinks Ethan should be able to keep his 2 front teeth for a few decades if not more, and who knows what dental cosmetic surgery will be doing then. Advancements are made every year.

Hassle. Yes. Expensive. Yes. BUT thank goodness this is the worst of the health problems in our family (knocking on wood) and that dentistry is so advanced that this can be treated fairly easily.

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Summer 09: will I ever get it this right again?

September28

It was a lovely summer!

Ethan has transferred to a year-round school this year: he starts school about August 1 and ends school approximately June 30, with 3 3-week vacations during the year. (The 1st is coming up next week and he and I are taking a road trip touring California Missions and ending up at Disneyland!) Next year he will only have about 4 weeks off for summer. That seems too short! It’s impossible to do all the wonderful things summer allows in 4 weeks!

But this past year his last day of school was on the traditional school schedule, so he was done by mid-June. I now believe that 6 weeks off is the perfect amount of summer vacation!

A couple weeks of nothing, a week of camp and some family trips. Enough time for a diverse experience but not enough time to get bored.

Some of our adventures:

- we went camping in the redwoods with the preschool again. Beautiful June weather, days creek-walking, skipping stones, hiking, San Gregorio beach and then oops! some wasps built a nest 4 feet from the entrance of our tent on the last day! 7 stings for mom!

- E & J went to Berkeley Chess School camp (their choice) and spent the week with Grandma & Grandpa

- we spent 9 days in the northeast with Bapu, Susu and Abigail plus a side trip to see Peter, Oliver, Aunt Susie and Uncle Doug and Cousins Andy & Zoe. Parks, hikes, the flu, a family reunion (my husband’s family without my husband…. ), Westport beach, subway rides, seeing Twin Tower re-build from underneath, losing Matthew at the Penn Station PATH platform, eating Manhattan pizza, Metropolitan Museum of Art and a Yonkers kosher deli with Nana & Shana – clearly this is a blog of is own

- a week or two OFF with friends, trips to Coyote Point and hanging around the house

- visits from Claire Bear, Henry & Darcie and The Kent Family

- Peters/Adragna Family Reunion in Tahoe North Shore with 30 people in a cabin, lots of love and not too much complaining, tubing down the Truckee (picking fights with water-gun yielding teens and Matthew getting the best of them, Glen falling out of the raft!), me finding a musical to rehearse with across the street, beach, art fair, motor boat and water skiing, no talent show! Clearly, another separate blog.

Anyway, I meant to blog it as we went along. It was a lovely lovely summer.

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Hi Ed!

September5

This is a post to our PTA President Ed Coady. He is the MAN. But in a good way.

It’s SUMMER VACATION!

June15

It is SOO NIIIICE to not have to be dropping off or picking up a kid every 3 hours. Heaven!

We have a fantastic summer planned. We started off the evening of the last day of school with a family picnic potluck in the park with a bunch of friends. Now we’re enjoying a few days of friends and relaxing before we leave Glen in San Mateo and go off to a camping trip in the redwoods, near the beach.

We finally bought our own tent instead of borrowing Grandpa Jim’s, so we practiced setting it up in our yard yesterday and slept in it last night. Jared was very nervous about possible raccoon attacks but I convinced him to stay with me and his not-at-all-nervous-but-giggling brothers. Glen can’t take sleeping on the ground with his bad back, but it suited the rest of us just fine!

Something about sleeping in a tent – we all wake up at 6 a.m.

Grandpa Jim, we will still need to borrow sleeping bags!!!

Ah summer! We have so many fun things planned, with just the right mix of nothingness.

Current Favorites

May24

Reading Now

Ethan is reading the Percy Jackson and the Olympians series.

Jared is reading the Captain Underpants series.

Matthew’s favorite read these days is Tony Diterlizzi’s picture book version of the famous Spider and the Fly by Mary Ann Howitt.

I’m on an Ian McEwan kick.

Favorite YouTubes

Tribute to John Williams: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lk5_OSsawz4

Ethan, Grace and Sophia in the Laurel Talent Show: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=np9mj8sDcyE&feature=channel_page

Favorite Songs

Matthew: Oats and beans and barley grow, Raffi and Weird Al Yankovich’s The Saga Begins about Star Wars

Katie: Been listening to Sunday in the Park with George and 101 in the Shade

Ethan:  Bombs over Baghdad, Outkast

Glen: Death Letter, White Stripes

Jared: “I dunno”

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Graduation from Co-op Parent Participation Preschool!

May22
Pic by Sue Exley at graduation

Pic by Sue Exley at graduation

Matthew and I graduated from preschool yesterday!

Matthew is moving on to kindergarten after 2.5 years at Carlmont Parents Nursery School (where Glen worked with Irene Carvajal to redesign the Website. They made the templates I populated all the content).

6 years in a row for me of working at the school at least once a week, doing a family job, attending night meetings. 6 years in a row of a strong community around us, people who share our values, family potlucks, picnics and concerts and being able to always find a playdate.

I’m really happy that we made the commitment to this school and to El Cerrito Preschool Cooperative before that. It was a lot of work, but it was worth it.

The PTA Board at Laurel always has at least one former CPNS parent on it. Next year it will be me and Ed Coady.

Anyway – more about MATTHEW! He wanted a pair of crocs, those rubbery, flimsy sandals which can be worn in water. I bought him a pair but said I would return them if he wasn’t good during graduation. He was SO GOOD! He sat quietly at attention the entire time. I was SO PROUD of him! I couldn’t believe it.

I guess he really is ready to move on to kindergarten. He thinks he is. He seems to think it starts any day now! Maybe today!

Rainbow Observations by 1st Grader Jared Lipka

May12

Red is gum drops, fire and red peper.

Oranges is oronges, lion scin and oreng juse.

Yellow is lemen heds, lemens and lemenad.

Green is money, grass and frogs.

Blue is the sky, blue berries and a pool.

Purple is graps, eggplant and medeicine.

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“My Mom’s (Katie’s) Poem”: By Ethan Lipka for Mother’s Day

May11

She makes me food

and puts me in a better mood.

She whistles to songs I like

and encourages me to ride my bike.

* * *

You’re the best

and always will be,

I love you and you love me.

I would still love you if you were in my hair.

I would never ever care

even if you were a bear.

* * *

Kneener! Kneener! Kneener!

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Happy Birthday Jared!

March22

Please join us to celebrate Jared’s 7th birthday!

Lipka yoyo expert Glen will display some tricks and try to teach a few. We will provide yoyos for all children who have rsvp’d over age 5, but feel free to bring your own as well!

A light lunch and - of course – cake will be served

Families of invitees are welcome to stay and enjoy time at the park with us.

Rainy Day Plans: Bring your rain boots and jacket! We’ll go for it! I sure hope yoyos work wet!

jaredEveryone rsvp’d and almost everyone came!!! We had a lot of people! I think the dads enjoyed the yoyos more than the 1st graders though. Developmentally, yoyos are probably a better 3rd grade party.

The Hidden Parks, East and West Hillsdale, are just perfect for parties. They are a decent size and the entire park is visible, so parents can socialize while kids play. They’re also pretty sparsely used generally. The hitch of no bathrooms is solved when your house is down the block! The park serves many ages well because big kids can play soccer or football, while little kids enjoy the sand and slide and 1st graders can enjoy it all!

It was starting to rain 30 minutes after the party was supposed to end and people were still hanging out! And that’s with no alcohol served!

Grandma Penny helped so much by making half the quiches plus the salad and generally helping cleaning and shuttling and just everything. Thanks mom!

Most importantly, Jared had a terrific time. Finally a party for him with no tears and tantrums. Just smiles :)

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